Our kids are growing up in a wireless world. There are not just television shows for kids, but entire networks devoted to children’s programming (with advertisements designed to reach our pocketbooks through them). Elementary school kids are texting each other. (By the way, the word “texting” makes my spell checker freak out.) Moms are now keeping online scrapbooks in the form of blogs and flickr sites. Young children log on to websites to set up rooms and play games to earn “money” to buy toys and furnishings for the cyberspace alter egos of their stuffed animals and dolls. They learn “keyboarding” in school. Laura can type with all of her fingers, faster than Tom. (I’m still the fastest in the house! Mwah ha ha!) When they want to know something, they ask us to Google it.
I’m not saying that I’ll be replacing quiet talks with my daughter or the good old-fashioned family meeting for dispensing words of wisdom and shaping social growth with an advisory notice posted on my website. But I am saying that my daughter is going to be paying close attention to messages that come to her in a format that holds her interest. And in today’s world, the delivery of the message that effectively reaches the smallest consumer is likely going to involve a screen and/or a pair of earbuds. When kids are out seeking entertainment in the wireless world, it will be up to parents to point them in the direction we want them to travel.
Here is a list of media recommendations approved by Laura that I think happen to contain valuable social messages:
1. Signing Time! DVDs
When Laura was three, she began attending a preschool in which 15-20% of the student population was comprised of children with special needs. Her friend Chelsea, diagnosed with Cerebral Palsy, did not have speech; she required aids to hear, and Chelsea couldn’t always wear them. Laura’s friend Patrick, diagnosed with Down Syndrome, also relied on signing to communicate. Because it was important to Laura to communicate with Chelsea and Patrick, she chose to learn sign language. Once she’d exhausted the vocabulary of her preschool teachers and Chelsea’s and Patrick’s moms, Laura’s demand for more words led me to a series of DVDs from Signing Time! Laura mastered the first six Signing Time! DVDs before she was four, and then began to take weekly sign language classes, which she continues to this day. Since our first Signing Time! purchase, the folks over there have made lots more DVDs and music CDs (we have a couple of those too). Not only has Laura’s ability to sign enabled her to communicate with her special friends, she is learning a language that will fulfill her second-language requirement in high school and college. And, here’s the really cool part, with a few of the signs that I have learned from Laura, when the need arises, I can totally scold her from across a crowded room without raising my voice! Seriously, it is nice to be able to catch her eye in a Brownie meeting and be able to communicate, “Good job!” from the other side of the room.
Signing Time! is available over at Amazon, of course, but check out the Signing Time! website. The story of how the Signing Time! DVDs came about will put a lump in your throat and a smile on your face for the rest of the day.
Here’s a little excerpt to get you started:
In December of 1996, Rachel Coleman and her husband Aaron welcomed their first daughter Leah into the world. At the time, Rachel was writing music and performing with her folk rock band. They would take young Leah to band practices and concerts and were amazed that she was able to sleep in spite of the loud music. When she was fourteen months old, they discovered why: Leah is profoundly deaf.
Can you imagine being a musician and your child is born deaf? What was this mother’s response? Signing Time! And in so doing, her outreach was global. I encourage you to read their incredible story.
2. Rindin the Puffer
“Rindin” stands for “Respect Individual Differences.” This eight-minute animated short comes from the creative genius of Len Simon (Curious George, Fat Albert, among others). Rindin carries a socially important message delivered in a kid-friendly format. You can get the DVD on Amazon, but go to the CrocPond website and take a look the cast of characters coming your way. They were “created to inspire children of all ages to make wise choices and realize their full potential.”
Here is an excerpt from the CrocPond website about Rindin:
It’s RINDIN the Puffer! He’s an odd looking fish, with googly eyes and no chin! He has big buckteeth in his ridiculous grin! But what makes him different and unique most of all…is when he’s frightened; he expands…like a prickly beach ball!
As our story begins, three young fish make fun of Rindin for being different. However, when the same three fish get themselves into trouble with a hungry barracuda, Rindin inadvertently saves their lives. With a newfound respect for Rindin, they all become best of friends.
This 8-minute adventure encourages children to be creative, while helping them to recognize the value of tolerance and getting along. Bullying, disrespectful treatment, and separateness based on cliques, races and even gangs, have continued to plague schools. Rindin is an opportunity to entertain millions of kids of all ages, while helping them to see their peers in a positive new light.
3. Chris & Amy’s Movies in My Mind by Imagination Development Group
Laura loves these CDs; we bought them when she was in Kindergarten and downloaded them on
my our iPod. When our Brownie troop enjoys “iPod stories” after everyone is tucked into sleeping bags before lights out, they are listening to Movies in My Mind (Chris & Amy are characters who experience the story). The Amelia Earhart story was a hit at our first sleepover! On the way back from a recent field trip with Laura’s school, five tired and hungry children listened quietly to the Thomas Edison story the entire way back to school. When the teacher asked me if the ride back was noisy, I could honestly say, “Not at all.”
Movies in My Mind can be purchased on Amazon, but check out the Movies in My Mind website to read a little more about these great CDs. Laura has all six of them, and has listened to them each numerous times.
Here is a bit of a description from the Movies in My Mind website:
As a constructive alternative to TV these award-winning CDs use detailed dialog, music and sound effects to create vivid stories that kids can “watch” with their eyes closed. This builds the learning skills children need to succeed in school, skills they lose when exposed to too much TV.
With age-appropriate vocabulary and historical stories, the Movies in My Mind series encourages kids to listen and create images better than anything they can see on TV. It encourages them to enjoy the theater of their own imaginations, and movies in their minds.
4. Buck Howdy & BB’s “Chickens” CD
Did I save the best for last? You bet.
Chickens is a Grammy-nominated album chock full of delightful original songs (like “Chickens”) and some happy covers (like “You Are My Sunshine”). Buck tells me (and, yes, this Grammy-nominated singer and musician communicates with his fans) that the reason Chickens appeals to my sophisticated taste is that Western Swing has heavy jazz and blues influences. And to that I say with great maturity: “Hee hee! Buck thinks I’m sophisticated!” Seriously, Buck & BB’s music bridges the generation gap, making it not just tolerable, but actually enjoyable to parents, even when kids do that thing they do and want to hear the same songs over and over again. When Laura does that with Chickens, I’m singing along too.
Not only is the music of Buck & BB appealing, the lyrics deliver inspirational, uplifting, and socially important messages. The song “Woulda Coulda Shoulda” is about making responsible choices. “Are You Havin’ Any Fun?” is about the importance of priorities and perspective. “Friends” is about unconditional love and the power of friendship. One of BB’s favorites is “Ain’t Nobody Here But Us Chickens” which she says speaks to her of the importance of enjoying your environment, feeling what it is to “be,” and of respecting the time and space we all need to just play.
You can buy Chickens at Amazon and CD Baby, but do click right over to the Buck Howdy & BB website to see videos, hear music clips, and find out when Buck & BB will be in your neck of the woods. Guess what? Buck & BB will be appearing at the White House later this month. You can also find Buck Howdy on Noggin and XMKids. In addition to winning a Grammy nomination for Best Children’s Album in 2008, Chickens was named to the most prestigious top ten lists of children’s and family music in 2007: NPR, The Washington Post, and Newhouse News. And, of course, Blog This Mom! has
shamelessly named dropped written about Buck & BB before: Here, here, here, and here.
Buck & BB on the red carpet at the 2008 Grammy Awards:
Readers Reader: Do you have any favs to recommend?